Divorce Mistakes to Avoid

Divorce Mistakes to Avoid

By Frank Vendt |

You’re divorcing, and there’s no way around the fact that you’re going through a difficult ordeal. Stressful situations like a divorce can push you to do things you otherwise wouldn’t. When slogging through a divorce, nearly everyone’s tempted to engage in some iffy maneuvers, but there are some common mistakes that you should avoid to minimize the fireworks and pain associated with divorce.

Don’t Make Unreasonable Demands

The fear associated with divorce can drive reasonable people to make unreasonable demands. Don’t make an unreasonable decree your starting position. For instance, demanding all your family’s assets and eschewing all your joint debt isn’t going to get you very far and is likely to set the tone for a more contentious process than is strictly necessary. Your skilled Texas family law attorney will help you understand how you can reasonably protect your interests while working toward a resolution that both you and your divorcing spouse can come to terms with.

Don’t Air Your Dirty Laundry

Even if your spouse has engaged in infidelities or suffers from a significant mental health issue or addiction, airing any of this in court is not necessarily helpful. Such public exposure could hurt your children and even damage your spouse’s career and, thus, his or her ability to keep up with child support and/or spousal maintenance. There are ways to attempt to deal with such issues privately—such as through mediation—whereby they can be addressed without making a public spectacle out of potentially damaging and humiliating information. Again, your skilled and reputable divorce attorney will guide you toward what’s best for you, your children, and your case.

Don’t Make False Accusations

Divorce rarely brings out the best in anyone, and even the most reasonable among us can be tempted to hurl false or exaggerated accusations at our soon-to-be exes. While such actions may provide you with a moment of personal peace in the tempestuous storm that is divorce, they’re almost certain to backfire. An accusation made in haste can be difficult to retract and can have lasting negative consequences for your ongoing relationship with your children’s other parent (a relationship that never truly ends), which—in turn—can have lasting negative consequences for your children.

Contact a Katy, Texas, Divorce Attorney Today

If you’re facing a Texas divorce, you know just how gut-wrenching that can be. Before you allow your emotions to push you toward making bad decisions that could negatively affect both your divorce and your future relationship with your children’s other parent, consult with an experienced Katy, Texas, divorce attorney who will help guide you on the least-disruptive path toward divorce.

You naturally want your divorce to proceed as smoothly as possible, but divorce cases can pivot on a dime and engage in impulsive divorce strategies does little to mitigate this fact. Attorney Frank J. Vendt at The Vendt Law Firm, P.L.L.C., is here to help efficiently and effectively guide your case to its most hopeful conclusion. To schedule an appointment with Mr. Vendt, please contact or call our office at (832) 276-9474 today.